While I think he is a brilliant, but undisciplined, thinker, I am not a fan of Newt Gingrich. I believe that he is not as fiscally conservative, as he would like us to believe. I think that his past is shady, but understand forgiveness and redemption. He may be a different person now. I don't know, but he would certainly not be my ideal vision for President ... unless my other choice was Barach Obama.
Having said that, I don't like Democrats, who lie and trade in the most vicious of smears.
Newt Gingrich did not ask his wife for a divorce on her deathbed in a hospital while she was dying from cancer.
1. She never had cancer.
2. She was never on her deathbed.
3. She is still alive.
4. She asked Newt for a divorce.
5. He did not ask her for a divorce while she was in the hospital.
My father, former Speaker of the House Newt Gingrich, has been in politics as long as I can remember.
And as long as I can remember, media coverage about him has contained misstatements of facts. The vast majority are simple mistakes that are easily corrected, understood and rewoven into an ongoing storyline.
But one of them seems to have taken on a life of its own, and simple corrections have not sufficed to set the record straight. Why does this happen? I can’t be sure, but I suspect that the narrative created by these untruths proves to be so much more compelling and more dramatic than what actually happened that it proves irresistible.
I’m talking about the story of my father’s visit to my mother while she was in the hospital in 1980.
For years, I have thought about trying to correct the untrue accounts of this hospital visit. After all, I was at the hospital with them, and saw and heard what happened. But I have always hesitated, as it was a private family matter and my mother is a very private person. In addition, for the four people involved, it was one of a million interactions and was not considered a defining event by any of us.
And as long as I can remember, media coverage about him has contained misstatements of facts. The vast majority are simple mistakes that are easily corrected, understood and rewoven into an ongoing storyline.
But one of them seems to have taken on a life of its own, and simple corrections have not sufficed to set the record straight. Why does this happen? I can’t be sure, but I suspect that the narrative created by these untruths proves to be so much more compelling and more dramatic than what actually happened that it proves irresistible.
I’m talking about the story of my father’s visit to my mother while she was in the hospital in 1980.
For years, I have thought about trying to correct the untrue accounts of this hospital visit. After all, I was at the hospital with them, and saw and heard what happened. But I have always hesitated, as it was a private family matter and my mother is a very private person. In addition, for the four people involved, it was one of a million interactions and was not considered a defining event by any of us.
"My
mother and I have both recently run into quite a few people who hold an
inaccurate understanding of this hospital visit. Many think my mother
is dead."
So, to correct the record, here is what happened:
"MY MOTHER, Jackie Battley Gingrich, IS VERY MUCH ALIVE, and often spends
time with my family."
I am lucky to have such a “Miracle Mom,” as I
titled her in a column this week.
As for my parents’ divorce, I can remember when they told me.
It was the spring of 1980. I was 13 years old, and we were about to leave Fairfax, Va., and drive to Carrollton, Ga., for the summer.
As for my parents’ divorce, I can remember when they told me.
It was the spring of 1980. I was 13 years old, and we were about to leave Fairfax, Va., and drive to Carrollton, Ga., for the summer.
"My parents told my sister and me that they were GETTING A DIVORCE as our FAMILY of
four SAT AROUND THE KITCHEN TABLE of our ranch home."
Soon afterward, my mom, sister and I got into our light-blue Chevrolet Impala and drove back to Carrollton.
Later that summer, Mom went to Emory University Hospital in Atlanta for surgery to remove a tumor. While she was there, Dad took my sister and me to see her.
It is this visit that has turned into the infamous hospital visit about which many untruths have been told. I won’t repeat them. You can look them up online if you are interested in untruths. But here’s what happened:
Later that summer, Mom went to Emory University Hospital in Atlanta for surgery to remove a tumor. While she was there, Dad took my sister and me to see her.
It is this visit that has turned into the infamous hospital visit about which many untruths have been told. I won’t repeat them. You can look them up online if you are interested in untruths. But here’s what happened:
"My mother and father were already in the process of getting a divorce, WHICH SHE REQUESTED."
Dad took my sister and me to the hospital to see our mother.
She had undergone surgery the day before to remove a tumor.
She had undergone surgery the day before to remove a tumor.
"The tumor was B-E-N-I-G-N."
(Sophie: For those of you suffering from Alliduncism* -- "You do realize that even benign tumors are cancer?" -- benign is the opposite of malignant. Malignant = cancer. Benign =/= Cancer.)
As with many divorces, it was hard and painful for all involved, but life continued.
As have many families, we have healed; we have moved on.
We are not a perfect family, but we are knit together through common bonds, commitment and love.
My mother and father are alive and well, and my sister and I are blessed to have a close relationship with them both.
My sister and I feel that it is time to move on, close the book on this event and focus on building a great future. We will not answer additional questions or make additional comments regarding this meaningless incident, which occurred more than three decades ago.
As I said, my mother is a private person. She will not give media interviews. She deserves respect and should be allowed to live in peace.
Jackie Gingrich Cushman, a syndicated columnist, is the daughter of Newt Gingrich.
As have many families, we have healed; we have moved on.
We are not a perfect family, but we are knit together through common bonds, commitment and love.
My mother and father are alive and well, and my sister and I are blessed to have a close relationship with them both.
My sister and I feel that it is time to move on, close the book on this event and focus on building a great future. We will not answer additional questions or make additional comments regarding this meaningless incident, which occurred more than three decades ago.
As I said, my mother is a private person. She will not give media interviews. She deserves respect and should be allowed to live in peace.
Jackie Gingrich Cushman, a syndicated columnist, is the daughter of Newt Gingrich.
* Alliduncism:
Sadly, an affliction affecting millions of young Socialists,
Communists, Anarchists, Progressives, Liberals, and
Whatever-We-Are-Going-To-Call-Ourselves-This-Year-Because-Our-Former-Label-Is-Now-Toxic-With-The-Public
worldwide. At first, it appeared to be reversible through intense
restorative applications of reality; however, it now appears that the
majority of those suffering from the condition are beyond help...for the
most part.
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